add all ingredients but corn, jalapenos, egg whites, and cheese and mix together. Note you used 1/4 cup of butter with corn so only add 1/4 cup of melted butter here!
1 whole jalapeno pepper, ½ cup salted butter, 1⅓ cup medium grind yellow corn meal, 1⅓ cup all purpose flour, ¼ cup honey, ¼ cup sugar, 1 tsp baking powder, 1 tsp salt, 3 egg yolks, ¼ tsp cumin, ¼ tsp smoked paprika, 1⅓ cup buttermilk